I would welcome Jo to this site, but first I think that she should offer a written apology to me and all those whom she has defamed with untruths and thinly veiled charcter assassinations.
I have repeatedly told Jo that over the phone, in emails and on forums. Speciifically, I have insisted on an written apology from her both at the DZ and on the Word Press blog, but Jo refuses. She has planted her flag, and she's not moving towards reconciliation.
Frankly, Shutter, I am surprised that you let Jo get this far. I'm disappointed. I consider Jo Weber to be highly toxic and destructive.
If Jo is here, I'm not.
Well, first of all she signed in after on was off the computer. I wanted to hear your side of what to do. please understand where I am with this. how about we put Jo on hold until she speaks with you. I have a lot on my plate at the moment. I just got home, so let me know what you think about my direction. I just received an email from her last night speaking of not coming onto either site. I didn't reply to the email. I woke up and seen she signed in. life is not over at this point. I value your opinion, so that is what I have come up with.
as it stands now, it's two against her right now. I will email her about the decision of holding her joining back until she speaks with you. that sounds fair to me?
Please Advise.
Added: I sent Jo an email explaining the reasons for the hold. she can not post at this time. from this point, I believe the problem should be solved offline.
Of course, do what you think is best for the Cooper discussion. For me, I need Jo to be held accountable for her actions. If this forum fails to do that, then I am unable to participate.
I know that sounds like "It's either me or Jo," but I see it as insisting on civil behaviors from all posters at all times. Jo has baggage. She doesn't come here fresh, so she needs to apologize.
Plus she has the DZ. She has made her bed over there, so to speak, so let her sleep there.