Dudeman, how many jumps have you made at night, in freezing rain, with no references to the ground, and with probably no shoes if you did get any kind of an opening shock?
I've never been one to keep track of numbers, but I've made a shit-ton of night jumps, night bandit jumps (unauthorized, out of friends' aircraft, over wherever we were), night base jumps, in a variety of weather conditions including freezing sleet, and I've never seen a night sky that was pitch black, can't-see-your-hand-in-front-of-your-face, with no visual reference whatsoever. And the relative wind is it's own reference.
I've made a shit-ton of barefoot jumps, though it's debatable whether Coop had penny loafers that would have blown off on exit. Some descriptions are of ankle high no-lace bootlets, and Flyjack has found examples of those with Vibram-type soles.
As for Cooper being thrown out of whack by possibly having a reserve container attached to his front, remember that in those days it was customary for jumpers to have a reserve container attached to their front. As for having other things (money bag) also attached, look how much stuff some military jumpers carry, and look at tandem jumps. I've made shit-tons upon shit-tons of jumps with live, fully grown, often uncooperative people attached.
And every jump I've made, I've gotten an opening. Every. Single. One.
Not trying to be a jerk, just trying to inform your perception.